Brene Brown Sliding Doors

Okay you read the title of this post and thought what is a sliding door moment and why are my vows such a moment good question.

Brene brown sliding doors.

Every time we choose courage we make everyone around us a little better and the world a little braver. Dr gottman says in any interaction there is a possibility of connection with your partner or turning away from your partner in the following clip dr gottman shares an example of a sliding door moment in his relationship with his wife. Oh it just feels like an incredible understatement to say how grateful i am to be here with all of you. Read on what i ve found through research is that trust is built in very small moments which i call sliding door moments.

Remembering the names of family members. He argues that trust is one of those sliding door moments saying there is the opportunity to build trust and there is the opportunity to betray. Marble jar friends sliding door moments. We must risk vulnerability in order to build trust and simultaneously it is the building of trust that inspires vulnerability.

I feel like i have a relationship with many of you on social media and you. Whether the behavior seeks to be outright cruel manipulative and spiteful or simply is an innocent omission of information a forgetful moment or just. Brown provides the following as examples of small ways that trust is built. Here s a passage from daring greatly one of my favorite books written by one of my favorite authors brene brown.

To choose not to connect when the opportunity is there is a betrayal. Brene brown s research describes how she sees the paradox of trust. Trust is something that i battle with and i know many of you do too. People by nature are complicated and built for conflict.

This speech was originally delivered at ucla s royce hall in 2015.